The Male Psyche: I said, “No,” and Our Friendship Seemed to Have Turned Sour.
We’ve been friends for about three years now. He popped the question, “would you mind a relationship with me?” I replied, “no.” Though my reply was not as abrupt as I make it seem, I tried to be a little…
The Lie I Tell Myself About My Writing Journey
I questioned why I write. “I think I just want to write. Nothing really drives me,” I concluded during one of my introspective sessions. While cleaning the dishes yesterday, again I went into my regular soliloquy and critical thinking, and…
I Wrote My Wedding Vows
I see a new trend with marital vows. Couples now write their vows. People are no longer going the orthodox way. It is the Millennial’s and Gen Z’s way, and so we gotta* spice it up. We are drifting away…
Should Women Find it Difficult to Embrace Shared Financial Responsibility in the Family?
I would say I have some loyal friends (smiles) who constantly read most of my writings. My co-authored publication with my friend (OLUWASEMILOORE ATERE) which was published in the Nigerian Tribune newspaper opened the floor for questioning. A friend contacted…
Of What Relevance Is His Last Name on My Social Media Platforms?
In December 2016, I was one of The Platform (Nigeria)’s Young Professional Bootcamp (YBP) cohorts. During one of our sessions, a Human Resource expert said something that I held with me until date. He stated that it is unnecessary to…
When Will You Marry?
I am not here to interrogate anyone, neither do I want to make anyone feel guilty about not being married or ready for marriage. I am only here to voice out my observations and assumptions. Really, it is not more…
Facebook and Me: How Do You Engage With Social Media Platforms?
Artificial intelligence and automation have done extremely great things in the lives of the world’s population, we are very excited to use its tools. However, these tools are socially constructed; thus, the demand for wise use. Technology is a simple…
A LETTER TO THE MASCULINISTS
Dear Brothers, When Blessing tells you as a male colleague that this idea cannot be used in the way you have proposed, you often reply by saying, “the feminist is here.” If she tells you she desires to pursue her…
Megan and Harry Said Their Vows Yesterday; How Sacred Are These Vows?
https://youtu.be/_4dqIUYo2_4 I have always wanted to write on the sacredness of marriage vows, watching the royal wedding vows exchange between Megan and Harry reminds me that these words are not just wordy vows but proclamations to be committed till death.…
“…Never Meant To Be”
I never knew falling in love was this easy until I met this beautiful handmade of the Most High, just within three months of our meeting I fell head over heels in love and it seemed to me like I…